Punishment, Parenting, Prayer

Sunday Jul 13, 2008

“On the cross Christ paid the debt for every selfish desire, thought, word, or deed to which you will ever give yourself. You no longer have to be afraid to own up to your selfishness. You do not have to whitewash your thoughts and motives. You do not have to cover your sin by blaming others or by self-atoning logic. You do not have to give yourself to acts of penance (self-atonement) that make you feel better about yourself. You do not have to search for biblical passages that will give ease to your conscience. No, your debt has been fully paid. Your punishment has been borne by Another. There is One who has taken your place and been condemned instead of you. Paul says, ‘He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the written code, with its regulations, that was against us and that stood opposed to us; he took it away, nailing it to the cross’ (Colossians 2:13b-14). As God’s child, you have been forgiven for every act of self-focused independence and rebellion. –Paul David Tripp

As quoted by Ukrainiac

Doesn’t that just cause your heart to sing aloud?

Why don’t you re-read it? Such joy in that truth. . .

Today’s sermon was about forgiveness, and drew from the parable of the unforgiving servant. I was rocking babies in the nursery, so I didn’t hear it. But my children relayed it to me in such detail — I know they grasped the meaning.

And this reminds me of some conversations we’ve been having here about how we relate to our children. . .

We have been forgiven ten-thousand years of sin and guilt. As we are reminded above, the debt has been completely paid by Christ. We don’t have to whitewash or excuse or self-atone for our sins. Christ has done it all. Fully.

How can we who have been forgiven much fail to convey that forgiveness to our children? How can we point to any actions of ours or theirs to cover their sins? Why do we hesitate to tell our children the Good News? “Your punishment has been borne by Another. There is One who has taken your place and been condemned instead of you. . . . As God’s child, you have been forgiven for every act of self-focused independence and rebellion.”

The Gospel is so simple. So profound.

I know several mothers are visiting here this week to discuss Biblical parenting. This is my daily prayer as a mother:

“Lord, remind me of the truth of the Gospel. Remind me of Christ’s atonement and how great a debt I have been forgiven. Keep me dependent upon You. Help me in each moment to point my children to the truth of the Gospel. Help us understand that the sin in our lives today has already been atoned for on the cross. Help me and my boys to turn to you in repentance each day, relying upon You alone in all things. Amen.”

7 Comments »

I just realized I don’t know your name! Thank you for the message in this wonderful post. I could read the quote again and again. I think I will!

July 13th, 2008 | 10:37 pm

Amen!! thank you for that.

July 13th, 2008 | 10:55 pm
TulipGirl:

Mary, yes, I keep coming back to read it, too. It was just what I needed today.

Krysten, I amened it, too, when I first read it!

July 13th, 2008 | 11:05 pm

Amen! You’re so right. My husband and I have very high standards for our kids but we try to temper it with love and grace. Otherwise how would they ever think they could measure up to our expectations, let along God’s?

July 14th, 2008 | 10:10 am

love this…the idea of preaching the gospel to ourselves while we discipline our children, and all the time. fantastic.

July 14th, 2008 | 6:35 pm

That song has been running through my head since it was posted on WWF. :smile: A good one to get stuck on!

Thanks TG, for taking the time to keep dealing with the “Biblical” parenting issue. I have to smile at the number of times I’ve found other blogs linking back to yours. Good thoughts, biblical ones, soundly and compassionately presented. When I get my “Women I read” side-bar up, may I put you on it, pretty please??

July 15th, 2008 | 7:45 am

Yes, this is such good news!

July 15th, 2008 | 9:07 pm
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